Defeating Your Inner Sabateurs

“If you can’t love yourself, how in the hell you gon’ love somebody else?” -Rupaul

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The first time I learned about self-sabotage as dumb as it sounds was through watching Rupaul’s Drag Race (cheaper than therapy). Inevitably at some point midway through the show some queens start to develop self doubt in their abilities under the high pressure and competition. They speak of the inner voices to themselves that…